Words Matter

Although it was almost 40 years ago, I remember it like it was yesterday.  It was after school and I was hanging with my friends for 10 minutes before going to change for practice.  And one of my coaches came over and “ripped me a new one” for not starting early and working extra.  He chastised me for not being a good example, for not leading others and he said I will “never amount to anything.”  All of this in front of teammates and friends!  Not the way to motivate a senior, captain, returning state placer, and member of a state championship team.

Those words were like “death” to me.  I was devastated.  I was hurt. I became angry.  I became bitter toward the coach.  I could never learn from him again.

Words are so powerful!!  I know my words have hurt my teammates, family, friends and staff.  At least, I can ask for forgiveness to start the healing process.

Choose your words carefully, speak life into others – not death.  If you need to ask for forgiveness do it quickly.